On Facebook, X, and other social networks, it is very easy to “unfriend” someone. For some reason it is very difficult to figure out how to remove a LinkedIn contact.
If you think about it, LinkedIn was originally intended to be a social network for professionals who only connected with people they know and trust. But, similar to other social media sites, users today are more open and might connect with someone that they might not know too well. This is similar to how they might follow someone who seems interesting on X or Instagram without personally knowing them. In fact, many LinkedIn profiles (like my own) actually feature a Follow button, and you need to search further to actually send an invitation to connect.
Sometimes, for whatever reason, we might want to remove a contact that doesn’t make sense to have anymore. Perhaps they flood you with spam messages and sales pitches, or their content offends you. Whatever the reason, you have the option of removing them as a LinkedIn contact. Connecting with someone on LinkedIn is not a marriage by any means! Knowing this should give anyone who wants to build out a larger network, including by connecting to people that you virtually meet on LinkedIn, some sense of security in doing so.
Key Takeaways
✅ Removing a LinkedIn connection is quiet by design: the other person receives no notification, and they only discover it if they go looking.
✅ Switch your profile viewing to private mode before visiting someone’s profile to remove them, so you don’t show up in their profile views first.
✅ The fastest paths are the More menu on the person’s profile or the three-dot menu next to their name in your My Network connections list.
✅ Removal has a real cost: endorsements and recommendations between you are withdrawn and do not return if you later reconnect.
✅ Pruning works on invitations too: withdraw stale pending invites so you stay clear of LinkedIn’s invitation limits.
How to Modify LinkedIn Privacy Settings to Stop Displaying Profile Visits
Before we proceed here, especially because the first method involves potentially visiting a LinkedIn profile, let’s make sure that first we understand how to discreetly delete a connection without the other person knowing through modifying our Privacy Settings.
Although the search function is one of the most useful parts of LinkedIn, you do not always want to crop up in people’s profile views when you visit their profile. To make sure that your professional life remains private, and contact details are not shared, you can set your privacy to one of two options: entirely private, or simply “someone at [your school or place of work]”. While there may not be a second glance given for someone who has 1000s of contacts, it can still be awkward or uncomfortable to purge people from your contact list. To make sure that the contact in question does not know that you are visiting their profile, use one of these two options to limit profile visibility, private mode being the ultimate in privacy!
If you don’t know how to get the Profile Viewing settings pictured above, simply click here to be forward there!
The 3 Easiest Ways to Remove Contacts on LinkedIn
Although LinkedIn doesn’t make it easy to remove a contact, there are three ways that I have discovered to easily remove contacts after being one of the first million users back in 2004 and an active user since 2008. In fact, I have written 3 books on LinkedIn, including my latest, Maximizing LinkedIn for Business Growth.
Let’s now dig into the recommended methods. Please note that all of these methods work on the desktop version of LinkedIn but should also work inside the mobile app version regardless of whether it is for iPhone or Android.
1. Remove Contacts When Receiving a Message from Them
This has become the most common method for me. You have probably been in my shoes after receiving a harmless invite from someone interested in networking with you. You see their profile picture and name in their invite and you click accept. Then you receive their first message after connecting which is usually some sort of a sales pitch.
The beauty is that the LinkedIn user interface allows you to remove a contact from your Inbox. The problem is that you cannot merely remove them but must also block them. Considering that the person who contacted you might be one of a number of fake profiles that exist on LinkedIn, you might be totally OK blocking someone. I know I am!
Clicking on the 3 dots next to the LinkedIn profile name of the sender opens a menu that provides you the option to block someone by clicking the “Report / Block” button and then reporting them. Block away!
2. Delete Connections When Visiting Their Profile
This is the second easiest way to delete connections on LinkedIn. After all, there is probably an incident that makes you want to remove a LinkedIn connection, so if it wasn’t through receiving a message like in the above example, you will probably end up visiting that person’s profile to make sure you want to remove them. If you are concerned that they might find out that you visited their profile, make sure you visit their profile with your privacy settings showing you as an anonymous visitor as I recommended earlier in this post.
Once you have landed on their profile, click the “More” button below their name and headline, and you should see the “Remove connection” option near the bottom of the menu, as pictured below:
3. Delete Connections From My Network Connections view
How to delete connections on LinkedIn if you already have a list of people you want to remove as a LinkedIn connection or you want to scroll through your LinkedIn connections and decide who to remove? This option is for you!
If you navigate to the My Network tab, you will see how many connections you have on the top left corner. Pressing on that number will land you on the Connections view that appears below:
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You have the ability here to search for connections by either first name, last name, or the default recently added.
For every connection, you will see a Message button to the right followed by three dots. Pressing the three dots will provide you with a drop menu with the magical Remove Connection button.
Removing a LinkedIn connection through either of the above two methods will yield the same result.
The beauty of understanding how to delete connections on LinkedIn is that:
- Your contact will not be informed that you removed them from your connections.
- Should your disconnected connection wish to invite you to connect again, even after you remove them as a connection, they will get an error message saying something to the effect that “This user cannot be invited at this time”. If they contact you directly about this, be prepared to explain (I have been in the same situation in the past, so you will have to explain in your own words).
- You can re-invite the person you disconnected from, in which case you will be 1st-degree connections again, though any endorsements or recommendations withdrawn at removal do not come back.
How to Cancel Pending LinkedIn Invitations to Connect
While this is not the same as deleting your LinkedIn connections, you might have a need to cancel pending LinkedIn invites. Why? The same problem that leads you to delete LinkedIn connections, having too many of them, can happen with your invitations too. This is because LinkedIn has restrictions on the number of invitations you can send, so if you intend to send a bunch of new invitations after deleting some LinkedIn connections, you might want to cancel some pending invites that you have to avoid any potential restrictions.
Are you looking to meet your network size requirements and in need of some cancellation requests? First, click on the “My Network” tab to locate your contacts list. To find any pending connection requests for your professional network, navigate to the “manage connections” tab of your connections list. The connection requests tab is not immediately toggled to when you visit the connection manager; instead, you’ll find yourself on the “received” portion of your list of connections. Click over to “sent”, to the right of the landing page. This can be done manually for each request you want to cancel, as there is not currently a built-in option for canceling a multitude of requests. If you want to cancel quite a few pending connection requests from your list of connections, there are some third-party plug-ins that have been developed to do so.
Once you cancel out all of your pending invitations it should look something like this:
Click here for a shortcut on how to find pending invitations for your own LinkedIn profile.
Frequently Asked Questions About Removing LinkedIn Connections
Go to the person’s profile, click the More button below their name, and select Remove connection. Alternatively, open My Network, click your connection count, find the person in your Connections list, click the three dots beside their name, and choose Remove connection. Both paths end with a confirmation pop-up.
No. LinkedIn does not send any notification when you remove a connection. The only ways the person might find out are noticing you are no longer in their connections list or visiting your profile and seeing the Connect button instead of Message. For most people, the removal goes completely unnoticed.
Any endorsements and recommendations between the two of you are withdrawn when the connection is removed, and LinkedIn does not restore them if you connect again later. If a recommendation on your profile matters to you, think twice before removing the person who wrote it.
Yes. Switch your profile viewing options to private mode before visiting their profile, and your visit won’t appear in their profile views. You can also skip their profile entirely by removing them from your Connections list under My Network, which never touches their profile at all.
Yes, you can send the person a new invitation, and if they accept, you will be 1st-degree connections again. The relationship doesn’t pick up where it left off, though: endorsements and recommendations withdrawn at removal stay gone, so the history between your profiles does not come back.
Moving Forward
Now that you know how to remove contacts and even cancel pending LinkedIn requests, you should have the confidence that should you, for whatever reason, want to delete one of your contacts, the option is there. And it is easy to do! Please do note that LinkedIn withdraws any endorsements and recommendations between you and a removed connection, and they are not restored if you reconnect later. I assume that shouldn’t be an issue if you are removing them!
